Irish, Believe nothing of what they say and only half of what they do. I kept seeing that pop up from time to time when I first came to the board. I understand now for good reason, because it's true. I have experienced it first hand with my H on multiple occasions.
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Hanging on his every word, analyzing his lies and misperceptions will make you nuts. Just comfort your children and let them know that you will be there for them no matter what.
Trusting has given you some very wise advice. It's hard to do at first because you will be looking for your MLCer to be and react like he used to. He's not the same man right now and won't be for a long time, if ever.
The sooner you can, 'Let go and let God', the sooner you'll feel a measure of peace in your life.
