Get this: W was sick in bed all day and missed the funeral for OM's mom. I'm sure that made it better for OM's W not having to deal with the mistress in attendance.
Found out all this from her post on the popular social networking site. How she was supposed to go to "a good friend's" mother's funeral. W posted that she felt terrible not being there for the family for support, how they all were wonderful and totally understood, but she felt horrible that the focus was on her and not on them!
WTH??? She's pathologically self centered AND lacks insight into how her behavior is objectively viewed by normal people, let alone those involved emotionally, like those who loved the mil. WHAT THE HELL IS SHE TALKING ABOUT?? OMG....ARE YOU SWEARING SHE POSTED THIS ON FB? ? SHE IS INSANE...INSANE I TELL YOU. NO ONE, NO ONE, GAVE A CRAP ABOUT YOUR W BEING SICK, or being AWOL AT HER ADULTERATING BF'S MOTHER'S FUNERAL . IS SHE TOTALLY OUT OF IT?
Isn't it a tad more likely that a FEW of them like maybe ALL of them (even her idiot OM) were reflecting on their mother, and her life and passing? If any thought went to your w and I mean ANY, it was no doubt RELIEF that she wasn't there. But I''m not sure she even came up as a topic b/c , Oh, guess what?[u] A beloved woman DIED and the funeral was about HER and NOT YOUR W, OR HER OM...Jesus!.. [/u] DOES ANYONE THINK THE HEALTH OF your w, THE MISTRESS, WAS AT ALL important, or even of note, OTHER THAN HOW MUCH BETTER IT WAS WITHOUT THAT HIDEOUSLY AWKWARD MOMENT which NO ONE WANTED BUT was being forced upon them all at a horrid time of pain in THEIR lives, none of which mattered to OM and your w....NICE, Classy approach ....
Best case scenario is they HOPED it MARKED AN OUNCE OF GOOD TASTE on the part of your w in staying away....????
Seriously, I would not have thought it appropriate of your w to attend the putting down of the first family's dog...I MEAN IT, if OM's family were putting their dog down, and it's clearly a "first family" matter , NO ONE wants an interloper at a painful time for a "first family" but YOUR W and HER OM don't get it at all...I have a widowed friend who met a nice lady he just introduced to his kids. What a difference in taste and concern for the kids and taking it slow and their case has NO Adultery involved, let alone with the new partner the kids are forced to accept.....
In sum, I'm STUNNED by the mere possibility that your w is seriously entertaning the idea that any[/i] [i]of the attention was on HER, and not on the deceased mother. SHe has some ego.......INfu&%((%sane....
Pigskin, if you reconcile with this woman without her getting a brain transplant, I'm sorry but I will screw my head in the ceiling. You know what? You're being done a FAVOR by divorcing....God help me for saying that but THIS WINS, THIS TAKES THE CAKE FOR SELF ABSORBTION, A WHOLE NEW LEVEL HERETOFORE UNSEEN AND God knows we've all seen a lot....I can't talk anymore...too angry and freaked...
Wow. Completely delusional. Maybe this was God's way of getting HIS way...
I don't want to be married to this woman. Not if this is who she is.
AMEN
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
