Get this: W was sick in bed all day and missed the funeral for OM's mom. I'm sure that made it better for OM's W not having to deal with the mistress in attendance.
There's no way she was sick. It's probably more likely that the OM told her not to come or he doesn't have time to care about her since his MOM JUST DIED. Priorities, you see.
But then again, if she were really sick, she'd be resting and not posting on fb. Just like if she were really serious about her baptism that she had on Easter Day, should would have been deep in the miracle of salvation.
What did she do? Post pics online.
Read this outloud to yourself.
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How she was supposed to go to "a good friend's" mother's funeral. W posted that she felt terrible not being there for the family for support, how they all were wonderful and totally understood, but she felt horrible that the focus was on her and not on them!
It's all about HER when talking about OMs Mom's death. It doesn't show compassion about how hard her kids would be taking it (what, no mention of whether the "good friend" is having a hard time with his mom's passing). It actually mentions nothing about the mom or the family.
It's alllll about their concern for HER being too sick. That is horse cr@p. It's narcissistic. But you know that already based on everything that you've written here. I hope you take time to accept it.
I can't think of one person who's lost a parent that isn't completely overwhelmed by the situation to the point where you are in survival mode. The OM probably doesn't care about your wife. And why should he? His mom died.
This is a sick situation. Stop reading lies your wife is giving. And stop talking to OMs wife. She's not an ally.
Listen, I know you think I'm against your wife's church, but I'm not. I'm trying to point out things that maybe you can't notice bc you still love her and want her back. But your wife is acting in her own self interests and not that of your marriage.
If you believe in God, then you should believe in God's love...that is, surrounding yourself around people who care about you. Not whatever she is.