God, Puppy. Wish I had that info on Wednesday. May do it anyway next week. We don't have Boost up here but I'm sure I can find an equivalent with GPS. And then keep my eye on her as I wish.

Any way, I tailed her all the way to town and lost her somewhere near our old neighborhood. I felt I knew "where" I lost her and could go back and find her. To no avail. I had to drop my daughter at my sisters and couldn't find her vehicle anywhere I looked when I got back. I had even arranged for sitting tomorrow and a "ghost" car from a friend. (She's all excited about Saturday)But if I don't know where she is now, I'm not going to wreck Saturday for my D and me. It is wahat it is.

What I do know now is that, mysteriously, her wedding ring is now "in" the box but still by my vitamins in the kitchen. She packed a little suitcase rather than throw a couple things together. Oh, and for some reason, she had to tell me that "Amanda" insists I bring a bathing suit. I have no idea how she thinks all of this adds up to a believable story.

So now I’m just going to float through the weekend and spend time with D and my family. I think I’ll put my phone on “unavailable”. I don’t need any of her inane comments all weekend trying to placate me.

Interestingly, she has cousins in town from the east coast. She asked if she could take D to her mom’s for dinner Sunday. Not thinking, I said “It’s family so that’s fine” Only later did I realize Sunday is Father’s Day. I ‘m not expecting a card from her and will be surprised if she remembers to get one from D. Should I text Saturday or wait til Sunday to tell her “Fathers Day trumps dinner at moms”? Or keep Calla with me all day doing something fun and tell her she can have after 4. By the time she is done, it becomes her week as primary care.. And I’ll be strangely working late, etc all week. May even have to go out of town overnight. In fact, I need to get all my banking figured out and start compiling all my notes.
Next weekend, I also thought would be a good time to begin moving all my tools, drums, aquarium and other large personal stuff out “in preparation for selling the house; so it looks like a show home not a storage shed” A week of single mom and then signs the house is going away might do her some good.

From here on, I will ask and accept no “favors” from her. “I’ll handle it” will be my new motto.

As always, I’m looking forward to opinions and suggestions for anything I should be doing or doing differently.
Should I take my ring off?
Go dark? how if still living together?
Until I can get real proof, I can't really confront anyone.
Suggestions for me please.

Thanks everyone. I REALLY appreciate the assistance. And I guess NOW would be a good time to read the infidelity section in DB.