Thanks Sugar. I hear you loud and clear, trust me.
I am not going into tomorrow looking to reconcile. I am going into tomorrow to try to gauge the situation.
Remember, she already pulled the "I want to get back together" card on me once this week, and my reply was "I don't know".
That is STILL my reply.
To say I am hesitant is an understatement.
Tomorrow, before we head out for the night, I plan to make 1 thing clear. If she expects to even talk to me anymore, there is no dating, and there is no one else. There is no contact with OM, period.
If she agrees, then we can go and have a fun night together. If she doesn't agree, I'm going home.
For what its worth, I went over to a friends house tonight, and while I was there my wife called my friends wife to see if she wanted to go out for dinner with her.
Little things like that, that she doesn't even know about, are things that can BEGIN to make me believe her that she is not with OM anymore.
Of course, that was a small thing, and could mean nothing, but you know what I mean.
