I don't even know that to say about you and your H's convo...you got some things said that you needed to say to help bring some closure...your H seems to be feeling some guilt and uncertainty..
M48 H53 M16 T18 S16 D13 SS30 H drops bomb PA/8-30-09 H leaves 12-30-09 D filed by H 2-10 H asks to come home 4-11 Piecing