You are right...I am not ready to move over here...yes, H has filed but so far no activity...we are pretty dark and it is good on my end!
Everyone goes thru a life transition every 7-10yrs. My H went thru one in 2001 when he had his first A and is now going thru another one and he is handling it the same way. He came home after the first one...not "expecting" him to do the same this time but I still have hope!
Here I am going on about me!!! YOU are going to be fine! I have know that since I started following your sitch! Don't send H the email....YOU know in your heart you will be fine... your H has to figure this out on his own!
Have a wonderful weekend NM!!!
M48 H53 M16 T18 S16 D13 SS30 H drops bomb PA/8-30-09 H leaves 12-30-09 D filed by H 2-10 H asks to come home 4-11 Piecing