My UFO (unbelievably fabulous observations)

[hoosiermama]

ummmm...yeah, he was dumped. after 25 years; long and ugly story. he's a nice guy--but not so much the wimpy kind of nice guy, altho I think he's had time to come to terms with that over the past couple of years.

we do this dance; it's nothing new. and it's quite predictable, actually, after having such great conversations and...other activities while he was here. this has been going on almost a year and a half...and while we were both much too raw in the beginning, there is that buffer of 800 miles or so. but anyway, I know this pattern. hoped we'd gotten to a safe place, but I think it will be awhile--if ever--before he will be able to trust someone.