If he is a "nice guy" type then chances are HE was dumped. I am the same type. This site has helped me tap into my assertive side though.
Post divorce I might say the same type of thing to a woman just so that I would not be the one to get dumped again. Oh wait, I did say that sort of thing to someone already!
Me 35 Wife 34 Two daughters 8 years and 3 years Bomb 3/30/09 W filed 4/16/09 We met in'92 married in 2000 Divorce final