CW you definitely have an MLC husband so I see why you are still in that forum! Besides, it has been 3 months since you have seen any activity from your H regarding D, right? So stay put! Unless you feel like you want to move on it and come here. Thanks so much for visiting me!

OK well I did talk/text with WH tonight. But first I was reading Geronimo's thread and he posted this (in the beginning of his thread) which resonated with me:

Quote:
I suppose what I'm looking for is the ability to grow into this. Accept what is. Figure out what I need to do - and like Karen pointed out (and I'm paraphrasing) - have a clear head about my direction and be less wrapped up about my R with W. STBXW.


I mean I know WH just told me the news on Monday but this is exactly what I am trying to do - to grow into this. To make "divorced" my life. lol! I mean I know I am more than just a divorcee, but I mean to really fit into that role.


me,34
exH,34
S,16 months
S:3/31/09-left for OW
started DBing 10/09
d final: sometime 10/10
current:
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1
met in 2004