I could leave any time I want to, but doing so would jeopardize my chances of getting 50% custody and would give her an argument that I am agreeing to her keeping the house.
I would also have to continue to pay all expenses for this house with her living in it, while I additionally pay all expenses for myself living in a separate place. This would break me while giving her exactly the sort of "divorced" but all-expenses paid lifestyle she wants.
Nope, can't move out.
Me 42, W 39, S8, S6, S2 M 11y, A & ILYBNILWY 11/08 Walking away from a bad situation.