She Say's She Want's Out Of The Marriage

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Reconciliation can be a difficult process to go through, but can be very rewarding in the end. D is also a difficult process, but effects everyone involved for the rest of there lives.

Meh... reconcillation just takes time and two people willing to change. Now, people tend not to change unless they are forced to change or become desperate enough to want to change, but that's the only place where "difficult" works itself into the equation.

I think some folks think that divorce is easier because then they will be forced to change some things (i.e. no more spouse, new living arrangements, and so on), but... if the character/communication flaws that lead to the divorce aren't addressed, then what's important doesn't change.

I couldn't agree more. I've changed unbelievably. My W has regressed. I mean she has gotten really sick and vindictive because she's not getting what she wants in this path to D.

Not only hasn't she changed she's actually moved so far backwards that I don't see any of the woman I married in this shell of a person she is now.

In her mind, if she gets rid of me she'll be happy and all good. I have a very different opinion - and time will tell which one of us are right.