a dating post! finally, lol, I wanted to whine about my match.com date and give some words of advice:

STOP the wild expetations: at some point, i was SURE I was going to marry this guy! We emailed for a week, then texted a lot for another, he came on really strong, asking for a pict of me every day, sending a pict of him shirtless... asking for more time for our first date (i told him I had to go somewhere but changed my mind) Long story short, we met, had a great time...he was pleasant to talk to but never tried to connect... didnt' call back after all that fuss with the txts...

I can't believe how sure I was we were going to end up together... it was my first date ever after x and I d'd. Had 2 false leads (didnt get to set up a date with two) , was on match for a few days but just got feed up and quit. As my friend said, we are so ready to be in love that we don't really think... that was me... but I don't want to put a dog and pony show for anyone nor hope against hope that they like me or anything, I want to be loved for who I am, faults and all.

My profile is down... I ask God that if a looser will make my life heck then please let me stay single... my life is great as it is..enjoying my little ones...

And no, not looking for Tom Cruise anymore smile if it happens and if the guy treats me with respect and loves me and my kids then that will be more than enough for me, I would have to be attracted to him of course, but I am not as silly as I used to be about looks smile

Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2

30something
2kids
survivor of S, MLC, A, D
I have peace in my heart, at last.