This (listening to/seeing raw intel) is NOT for the feint of heart. If you think you may react emotionally, and not be able to control yourself, or if you think it will be too emotionally devastating for you, you may want to enlisted a trusted, discreet third party to review your intel for you, and report only the top-line findings to you, and safely keep them for you. [/i]
Amen to that! I'm behind Puppy on this one. Its hard, hurtful and extremely painful. It can do a lot of damage to your already battered self esteem, however it can also help put some resolve into your decision making (unless you are me, right pup?)
I also agree with his last post - Chatty, happy = rendezvous. Sorry. Take some support.
M:39 H:39 K:S14;D8 T:22yr M:15yrs S:12/28/07 EA/PA 3/14/08 OW preg 11/17/08 born 12/12/08 his ~~~~~~~ Never allow someone to be your priority while allowing yourself to be their option
