HI NM! Just stopped by to see how were doing! Looks like you have already gotten some great advice in this forum! Maybe I will join you over here one of these days!

I was surprised to read that your H's first wife had an A on him and divorced him. This is the same story for my H...his first W (they M cuz she was pg) and D'd 4yrs later after he found out she had an A. She ended up marrying her OM and they D'd about 5yrs later. She never tried reconnecting with my H though...as many times as I have read the similarities in a lot of our sitch's, I am still amazed when I read a new similarity!!!

Hope you have a great weekend!!!


M48 H53
M16 T18
S16 D13
SS30
H drops bomb PA/8-30-09
H leaves 12-30-09
D filed by H 2-10
H asks to come home 4-11
Piecing