So the hits keep coming! H had D and S meet him at an ice cream stand so they could talk to him about their questions about everything. He basically told them that he was unhappy financially in the marriage and that we had been having problems for a while. S asks if we were divorcing. H says "it's possible" - S says "how possible" H says "pretty possible" S and D come home sobbing. Said that their Dad never shed a tear. Who is this man? I have to pull myself together to be strong for the kids - they can't see me as the basket-case I feel like!