Last night, the sensitive twin asked me if grown-ups fight a lot. I told him sometimes. Why? He said that me and mom have been fighting a lot lately even though we are in the shed or outside, he sneaks out and listens. I told him that he and his brother fight all the time. It doesn't mean that they stay mad at each other. He said, yeah, you're right.
I told him I loved him and so did his mom. He said she is mad all the time, even when I'm not home.
I don't want this to drag on and hurt the kids more than necessary. God, I hate even writing that. None of it is necessary.