I'm glad that you have enough money put back to last for a while. Unfortunately, that is not my case. When W decided to work part time, we agreed to take the financial hit so she could stay at home with the kids. That was seven years ago.
I think that's part of the bigger picture, too. The stress of being home with the kids is greater than she wants to admit. She wanted to be there, now she doesn't. That doesn't make her a bad person. She is looking for a full time job in the medical field where she used to work. Her certifications have run out and she won't command the decent money until she gets them back. Then she worries what to do with the kids and how we will pay a sitter or daycare.
We both have money problems. At least my W will get half of nothing. Of course, that doesn't leave me with much either. That's the bad thing about all of this. We always made such a good team. Together, we made it and even thrived.
I hope you can protect your assets for you and your kids. You deserve it.
Of course, that doesn't leave me with much either. 
That's the bad thing about all of this. We always made such a good team. Together, we made it and even thrived.
