Thanks for sharing your thoughts, I really appreciate the advice! As for the changes, I totally agree, I've been busting my *ss for 6 weeks now on 180's and GAL's and am making huge strides in myself and sticking to it. My previous posts include the W's comments about not knowing who this is she's living with, stranger in the house and needing a C to help her cope with this new person she doesn't know - so I see those as change - she's said she can't say she likes it, but also has not said she does not as well - she's still trying to sort it out in her fogged mind imo.
As for the EA and my issues with it - there are none. It was my fault for letting this all fall apart in the first place and I truly believe that she had know idea at first what she was doing, it evolved naturally into a deeper EA and I think she was as shocked herself when she fully realized what she had done - not that she was sorry, but it' against her core values (ball A) to do something like that. I don't discuss it at all and don't lose sleep over it either. I might envision choking the leaving *hit out him while slam the weights at the gym, but after that I'm good to go all day long without a care!
If you have the time to catch up on my thread, I would love to have your insight here along with Greek, Shocked and OTMT as well - I add it all up and work what seems to be a solid game plan from all of you!
Thanks again
DD
Me 49 H 46 M 23yrs T 25 yrs Bomb Drop 4/2010 S22/D19/D15/S13
Same roof, different beds
"Honestly I can say this trip into my own private hell is a journey that I know now I had to take."