Here's what you need to do, because BELIEVE me, it works!
Think about the moment in your life when you felt the MOST powerful - when you felt INVINCIBLE - like when you won a race, won an election, got the sale, got the girl, got carried out of the stadium on everyone's shoulders - whatever it was, think back to THAT moment in your life when you felt AT YOUR BEST.
Then write it down on an index card.
ANY time she says ANYTHING to make you doubt what a great guy you are, put it out of your mind and refer to that index card. You are NOT a man oppressed by your wife's devil.
You are incredible.
You are invincible.
You are YOU.
I know...it sounds corny, but it WORKS.
You CANNOT be a loser and a winner at the same time. It's just not possible.