I think all that Sandi was saying is she does this to get a reaction from you. She knows the silent treatment, the sarcasm, etc. just pisses you off. It shows in your reaction to her; hurt feelings, getting mad, looking defeated.
Thank you!
DLS, you know what a button pusher is? Do you know why he/she pushes? Do you know when he/she stops? That was what I was trying to point out in less words than I ordinarily use.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!