OK. So I agree the she doesn't want to be together anymore, I don't think it's working for me either, let's talk about how to minimize damage for the kids' sake, but I am not agreeing to leave??
My coach also said by buying time it will keep us talking, and that I should also say that I need time to think about this and do some research and reading about the inevitable damage we'd be doing to our kids. I understand the part about elimitating the feeling that I don't get her feelings and the assoc. stress. It's once I do that when I get confused.
The house is in my W's name. I can say I have every right to live with my children and I am not abandoning my kids, but it's technically her house.
