WAW Using God II

[pigskin]

Hey, Pigskin.

I have been following along and you're getting great advice. I don't have too much to add.

But I'm more in the "tough love" phase now, and not worried about how my W will react to anything.

That is the way to be.

Your focus has shifted, as it should. Keep your head up and be proud of what you have done. Carry yourself with dignity and pride into the next phase of things. I know you are a good person. It would be so easy to try and exact some revenge on W and OM and wish them to hell. You stated you won't and can't do that. God bless you.

You will be okay. I have no doubt.

Thanks IDU. I think part of my problem when I feel down is that I'm currently job hunting after running my own business for several years. Got tired of the work and looking to get back into corporate life. I have lots of friends and contacts, so I'm confident I can land something, but the process is slow.

If I was working I'd have a lot more distractions and would probably feel better about things. Money is not an issue as me and my W were voracious savers; there's just too much flux in my current life right now and hard to focus when I'm dealing with her crap on a daily basis.

It's also no small irritation to think that the OM will get half of the wealth I've worked so diligently to acquire. It's probably no small motivation for him, too.