Also I think I've said before that I feel like I can still GAL and move on without filing for divorce. As bad as it might sound I'm at least able to still live in my house now. My house is o ly 2 years old and I've galena lot time and energy to make it a home and I would like to enjoy it. My WH make a similar salary my lawyer said with all of his issues I may be able to get some alimony but even then I don't know if I could afford to keep the house. Right now at least with the seperation he has agreed to pa his share. We couldn't even sell the house now because of the market. If he files I will probably end up counter filing for adultery which will give me a better chance at alimony and therefore ring able to keep the house. I have worked SO hard to get that house and I'm not giving it up!