Why is she still doing my laundry? If you were filing for divorce wouldn't you tell your STBXH to do his own laundry?
She wants to tell the kids on Sunday. that is Father's Day, so I am going to protest. It's not even 2 weeks she has been in a separate room yet, so we can wait a little longer to tell the kids, right? I told her I want it to be a time when we will both be around for a while, not just her and not just me, in case the kids want to talk. I suggested getting a kids therapist lined-up first, but she is poo pooing that, saying that we don't even know if the kids will need one. I said what is the harm in being prepared? Problem is, I can't get an appointment until July. Is that too long to wait to tell the kids?
Gotta go find a party tonight. I'll check-in with you all tomorrow.