Confused and looking for advice

[hockeymom12]

So I just heard from H and his first comment was so you opened your own bank account, I replied yes. So he said while how much do I have to give you, I told him (he knows this!) He said okay but you keep paying the visa then, I replied that was always my plan you are the one who said you would pay it.

He then says I know you do not want to talk about this at work but can I send you the separation agreement? I said that is up to you, he said well that way you have it and can give it to your lawyer. He is really wanting to stay at the house every second weekend on his own and I will not allow this so I guess he thinks if he sends me the agreement than I have to agree to it.

You know what though, him bringing up the separation agreement did not upset me as much as it has in the past.