Hi Danger. I read through your posts and wanted to make a suggestion: Your wife seems to be screaming for change. Not that she wants out, but that she wants...no needs change. You seem to be handling this very very well, but I think there is an undercurrent of needed change. That's what I see the EA being really all about. If it wasn't, then there would have been more and she wouldn't have come back. On your end, be sure that you are over the EA. If not, it will poison your relationship. I've seen it
You have time to work these things out - that's a long process. But wanted to suggest these things to you to be sure you are keeping perspective. Change is what is this seems to be all about - you can change together or apart, but I smell change. Whatever you are doing now, make sure the good changes stick for you.
Good luck, AJ
"Our lives begin to end the day we become silent about things that matter" MLK Put the glass down... "Yesterday I was clever so I wanted to change the world Today I am wise, so I am changing myself."
