I have been following along and you're getting great advice. I don't have too much to add.
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But I'm more in the "tough love" phase now, and not worried about how my W will react to anything.
That is the way to be.
Your focus has shifted, as it should. Keep your head up and be proud of what you have done. Carry yourself with dignity and pride into the next phase of things. I know you are a good person. It would be so easy to try and exact some revenge on W and OM and wish them to hell. You stated you won't and can't do that. God bless you.