Write it down saying everything you want to express. Then burn it.

The wayward, when there's an OP and by the time it gets to D, is highly unlikely to be phased by anything the LBS has to say anyway.

I would think that right now the letter should be for catharsis only.


Me: 49
WAW: 47
S11, S7
Years Married/Together: 17/18
Bomb: 6/15/07
Separation: 7/6/07
D: 4/3/09

Real love is a decision.
Marriage is a commitment.