I wish you could feel the pain I am feeling. Then I remember- you are doing to me what your first wife did to you. Except you dragged it out longer and there wasn't a child involved. So...
Can you remember how you felt when A divorced you? Would you have wanted to have pleasant conversations with her and stayed friends with her after she left you for another man? Imagine having to exchange your son with her every day- you have to hand him over to her and her boyfriend...and know that she is spending every day with her boyfriend's daughter but not her own son.
She left you because she couldn't cut off contact with him in order to give her marriage a fair shot. She didn't let you know what she needed so you could give it to her. No. Instead she just wrote you off and you didn't even get a chance. She probably was telling that other guy what she needed so he was able to give it to her instead of you. SHe had this fantasy that the way she felt with her boyfriend would last forever! So she married him!
Oh, wait- 3 years later she was calling you and emailing you and telling you how she made a mistake and she should have never left you. But you were married already so it was too late. Why can't you see this is what will happen to you?
---------------------------------- this is all true, btw. I just added imagine if you shared a child with her. Yes, she did try to contact him. AND HE HID it from me! Thinking I would be worried! I can't believe I had a child with this man!
me,34 exH,34 S,16 months S:3/31/09-left for OW started DBing 10/09 d final: sometime 10/10 current: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1 met in 2004
