oh, I definitely made a wrong choice when I married him. and it wasn't like I didn't have warning signs. and never thought I deserved to be treated better. there was my mistake. and it only got worse, as relationships tend to do after marriage...if your relationship has a fatal flaw, it grows.
however, my bottom line has become: I wouldn't have my daughter if I hadn't married him, and she is worth whatever I've had to put up with. just wish she didn't also have to put up with it!
as for true love, it is only after I stop seeking it that it will find me. still, we seem to have that compulsion, don't we?!
M60 H52 D20 M14 yrs OW-old gf from 1986 bomb-5/18/08 H filed for D-9/10/08 D final 4/24/09 xH remarried (not OW) 2012