oh, I definitely made a wrong choice when I married him. and it wasn't like I didn't have warning signs. and never thought I deserved to be treated better. there was my mistake. and it only got worse, as relationships tend to do after marriage...if your relationship has a fatal flaw, it grows.

however, my bottom line has become: I wouldn't have my daughter if I hadn't married him, and she is worth whatever I've had to put up with. just wish she didn't also have to put up with it!

as for true love, it is only after I stop seeking it that it will find me. still, we seem to have that compulsion, don't we?!


M60
H52
D20
M14 yrs
OW-old gf from 1986
bomb-5/18/08
H filed for D-9/10/08
D final 4/24/09
xH remarried (not OW) 2012