Long time, no post. As I read over the newcomers posts, I can remember the pain they feel so well. I can remember the sleepless nights and worry.
Now that I am stronger it seems like a million years ago.
My youngest will be 16 this fall. I told my H that I was going to sell my wedding set to purchase him a car. H had a fit. Of course I said..oh, so now it is important to you?
I am still worried about my S but know that we will make it through. I have gotten a separate account and will start getting my paycheck deposited in it in August. I have not told H about that yet. He will nto be happy but it is my money and we can split the house and utilities until I leave.
My daughter is the typical teenager and is getting more upset with H as the time passes. He has been an a$$ to her a couple times. She got caught lying to use and he made a big deal of it. I told her how disappointed I was but really wanted to say, like father, like daughter smile
I disconnect from him more and more each day. It feels great to know that I am going to be on my own soon. And I know that I will make it.


M:38
H:42
T:20 M:19
D:18 S:17
MLC: Sometime in 2007
OW Bomb 1: 12/28/07
OW Online relationship 2: Spring 2009
Told him I wanted D: May 10, 2009
D final: 07/09/11