This morning it was like nothing ever happened. She was in good spirits, we gave the boys breakfast and took them outside to play. She didn't seem angry or stressed out that we didn't talk. The reality is that my W is a good actress in front of the kids. I don't know how she does it sometimes. She can let go of all hostility and act like there is nothing going on.
You didn't ignore her feelings you stood up to them and didn't let her testing you rattle you in front of her. You having fun with your kids instead of moping and waiting around for her to "talk" showed confidence to her.
Follow her actions not her words. Do what works. Women and men think, feel and act differently. Learn the differences.
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.
