I can tell you as a man there is NOTHING that wakes us up faster than a woman who suddenly gets strong and stands up for herself and suddenly seems as if she is moving down the road without us. We don't even consider changing with your words. We let your words go in one ear and right out the other. Especially if you have been a door mat for awhile.(which you obviously have been)
If you want to save your relationship, then the best way is to send him packing with action.. No more words. Words are not working..
