Just found out she already filed

[ImprovedRomeo]

OK so I need to send her a response on the school issue and I need help. Here's what I got:

"I understand you completely and as you already know that I too would've liked for her to attend the [private] school. This is not a decision I took lightly. However, financially it's just not possible for me anymore. I've taken major steps to reduce my expenses but still I'm have a negative cash flow.

If you are able to fund her private school fully at least until 5th grade then I'm OK with it otherwise she'll go to the [my district] public school. As you said to me not long ago the house is her's and the school should be where her house is. Between the house and the school I believe it'll provide the most stable environment for her given the circumstance. Any change in schools in a year or two from now will be detrimental to her. I trust that you will understand my reasons just as I understood yours.

I also feel that we should get a professional to help us develop some sort of a co-parenting plan for DD's sake. If you're OK with it I'll research some options and make an appt for you and I go."

Not sure how else to say it without getting the emotions involved.