Last night my W wanted to sell a scooter to pay for legal fees to file for d. I told her that she did not have to sell it, as I knew she loves to ride it. She said she "had" to. I said no one is forcing her to do it. She said she already told a buyer that he could have it. I said if the paper work is not sign, its not sold it is still yours, tell the guy sorry. She didn't want to call him as she said then it looks like it all falls back on her. SO I called the guy and explained "I" didn't want to sell it. He understood.
I explained to her I wanted her to be happy and the riding the scooter is one of the things that do that. I told her, I don't care anymore about anything, I just want to be a family. She started to tear up, which I started to do the same. We talked a bit more and I told her good night. It was a positive evening with small but good progress.
Me 31 Wife 34 (Step)D 15 /(Step)S 13 / D 6 Married 3/3/01 Separated 6/4/10 Bomb 6/14/10 Served 6/22/10 EA/PA Discovered 7/5/10 Now Back Together 8/1/10