Basically I am in crisis mode because I know I need to act or this will never stop..
You formulate a plan of action when you aren't being driven by extreme emotions, and then you act on that plan for right now.
If you are going to have a panic attack over a "heart to heart", then don't have the danged talk. You aren't ready.
It's just talk, and you are just telling somebody you aren't going to live in an open marriage or be their safety net because--among other things--it sets a poor example for your kids.
Do you want your kids growing up thinking it's OK to cheat or be cheated on?
When you can think of it like that, you are ready to talk about it.
Last edited by TimeHeals; 06/18/1001:56 PM.
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