Your so right, I saw his mlc early on but didn't realize at the time that is what it was, but if I had known about him meeting this ow on the scuba diving trip then we could have gone for c right then. It's all in the past now & I'm letting it go & giving it to God, He has to take care of it all!!
Forever, I heard that remark too "I've been unhappy for years" when all this first happened he said so many things that other people have said their mlcer's have said, it was amazing to me! He told me of things that I did that didn't make sense at all & all the stuff he told me that was wrong in our marriage, in his eyes, was stuff that could be fix so easy plus it was not a big enough deal to get a divorce over, in fact it was petty stuff! But again, I'm sure it was his way of dealing with his involvement with ow.
