Yeah Sugar, I was actually just thinking about that this morning on my ride to work.
The truth is my wife is not in a good place mentally right now. She is miserable and hates herself, and I don't really see how anything good can come out of even trying to be with her until she straightens herself out first.
I think I am just going to tell her that.
P90X is hardcore! I can usually only get through about 30-45min of the hour workouts before I feel like I'm going to barf.
But, if you are serious about getting in shape and losing weight fast, it really is the real deal.