Standing, When DB'ing becomes unhealthy

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I personally really like the whole "standing evolves as it moves forward" thing.

Marked and Healed, the problem with "standing and evolving" thing is that the vast majority of the time, this doesn't happen.

So what you are saying is that she’s right. Of course things don’t always happen that way. The point is that they can and they do, should people not Stand because they might not do it well? And many here have found the opposite to be true—for many people it does happen that the LBS evolves. You may perceive an LBS as not having grown, but the appropriate indicator is how an LBS feels.

Please give me the names of the people on this board that have stood for 4 or 5 years and have had restored marriages.

Well, there is me and what about BND.

Braveheart, you have always been one of my favourite posters. And I am certain that you are not bitter. People are afraid to face the tough questions and when you pose them, their protection is to perceive you as a bitter. You’re likely used to it since it’s been that way since you came to the boards.

But sometimes the questions do not change once they have been answered over and over…and over again. I know, there are new people who need them. But this one about the reconciled marriages…come on! You keep asking and people keep answering and there has been a stickied thread about them for a few years. The horse is dead, stop beating it.

It feels like you dismiss the answers that people are giving.