TWolf you are doing great, try to tone down on the arguments though... If she starts yelling tell her you don't want to be part of a conversation like that and hang up
Let he cut people out of her life... She's turning everyone against her... That's good... the fewer people she has to turn to, the worse she's going to like divorce...
If she knows everyone supports the marriage, seh's gonig to try to save it... let her put everyone on the side of the marriage
If teh subject of "sides" comes up... Just tell her
I am not on my side or yours, I am on the side of the marriage instead of teh side of divorce... THAT is the line being drawn here, not me and you, but marriage or divorce... and OM is DEFINITELY on the side of divorce...
