Hope today is a better day for you. I think all MLC spouses do the "but I've been unhappy for so long....". Its amazing to me how much of an ogre I was to my husband for the past 10 years - at least according to him - in an attempt to justify his affair. Since we aren't in the fog and remember real life, know that our marriages were not the minefields they make them out to be. We just have to hope they grow up enough to realize how ridiculous they sound. And perhaps remember what WAS good between us. Perhaps that is where your H is at the moment and that's why he's acting more 'normal'.
And yes, Snodderly and her advice is priceless!
Me - 38 Husband - 40 MLC! Together 12 years Married 11 years Still the love of my life Forever only lasted 10 years before his MLC and affair
