The AM site is a scam to get as much money from mostly the men ... apparently. I've been reading a few reviews. Here's one that I found particularly interesting - http://www.clickfire.com/ashley-madison-review/

I cannot understand why anyone would want to have affairs and still stay married. Obviously, only the kinds that are narcisistic, with no idea of the pain they may cause to their spouses when they eventually find out. And some have unprotected sex and bring back the possible diseases from that union, to the marital bed.

Ugh! I'm glad I have no interest in sex or M anymore. It's taken me years to get to this point, but I find a certain amount of peace in my withdrawal from romance and all the cr@p it entails. But, I am 52, and BE is 28 ... too young to ignore that side of her life.

Take care.

Me:57 H:52 M:28 Got another lawyer last year and filed.
D35,S/D twins28,D22
EA4/04 End? Who knows?
"Life is like a mirror. Smile at it and it smiles back at you." — Peace Pilgrim