Yes, Trapt, I do try to be careful. My H and I own the business and with a small staff its very obvious when he isn't there. They know that he's been acting strange for the past 2 years, and "he's not feeling well" just doesn't really cut it anymore. I didn't really say he needed to run away, just that he didn't feel up to coming into the office. They have had to deal with the teenager and anger as well, so they know its a euphemism for him freaking out again.
Snodderly, I remember you addressed this before. I will definitely have to see the lawyer despite H saying we would work things out. Of course he hasn't given me any reason to trust him.
About telling his family - that is basically what I said to him. I figured that it should be up to him to address his infidelity, and he blew up and turned it into something about me not caring at all. I'm not sure if he meant him or the relationship, sometimes its hard to decipher MLC speak. I think alot of that spew is he has such anger towards his mother, and I got caught in the backwash.
Me - 38 Husband - 40 MLC! Together 12 years Married 11 years Still the love of my life Forever only lasted 10 years before his MLC and affair
