Hey Karen! Its still hard sometimes not to react to the X sometimes especially when its about our kids.
I can be really cool with H most of the time, but when it comes to my babies...watch out. I think it gets me even more because of the last 2.5 years. Part of me feels like he doesn't really have the right to be in on some of the decisions because I'm the one still here, being the parent everyday, all the time, not just when its "visiting" time or time for Camp Snoopy dad-time. Thats still one of my big triggers.
Anyway, I have faith you will do whatever is best.
Just wanted to stop by.
M:39 H:39 K:S14;D8 T:22yr M:15yrs S:12/28/07 EA/PA 3/14/08 OW preg 11/17/08 born 12/12/08 his ~~~~~~~ Never allow someone to be your priority while allowing yourself to be their option