He did not say "yes". He said "I guess". How was I supposed to know when he says he guesses, he actually means yes? WTF??!!
Wow...the enthusiasm is underwhelming. What have we learned here? Mr. 6 months is a douche-tard and isn't deserving of your time or effort so now he can guess his ass to the back of the line! Ass-hat!
As for STBXH - thats a whole different kind of WOW!
First the OW thing, he needs his ass kicked for because that was just to stick the knife in a twist it a little because I think he KNEW you were serious this time.
Second the apologizing is not something you need to worry about. Maybe you should tell him that instead of telling you he is sorry, perhaps his time would be better spent showing his kids how sorry he is and being a better man. Its easy to say, not so easy to live. I also know because our Hs are similar creatures that he is sorrier for himself than anyone else...I'm sorry should be read as (I'm pretty sorry for being such a dick to you & the kids all these years. I'm more sorry that you left me because I was such a dick to you and the kids all these years, but mostly I'm really sorry because even though this is what I caused, its a lot harder to live than I want it to be so I'm sorry for me and the inconvenience I've been caused.) LOL..sorry.
Third the check thing was his conscience and it was a gift so accept it as that and don't over think it because of this:
Originally Posted By: GoingForward
he FOUGHT to get support lowered. Not once, but TWICE, and both times he succeeded. He claims that the boys and I take over half his income and he says he is about to lose the house because he can hardly afford it along with his personal bills.
his children are receiving much less than what they should be. I've had to cut way back to stay on budget...while he manages to go skydiving, rock climbing, buying big ticket items, about to buy a new car.
Do something fun and enjoy it...
I see you over in the alt and you look great and it sounds like things are going pretty well for you...I guess. (sorry, I couldn't help it!)
Hang in there!
M:39 H:39 K:S14;D8 T:22yr M:15yrs S:12/28/07 EA/PA 3/14/08 OW preg 11/17/08 born 12/12/08 his ~~~~~~~ Never allow someone to be your priority while allowing yourself to be their option
