I'm sorry this is happening to you but you sound pretty strong.
I totally agree with 1 & 3 but IMHO I would demand IC as well as MC for my #2. My H and I jumped right into MC when I first found out there was a "friend" and it did more harm than good. If we had waited until he was done with the OW it would have helped. We did do IC and it helped tremendously.
FWIW I would want to see more of #3 before I truly committed to anything.
I've heard great things about P90X...too chicken to try it but maybe I will now.
M:39 H:39 K:S14;D8 T:22yr M:15yrs S:12/28/07 EA/PA 3/14/08 OW preg 11/17/08 born 12/12/08 his ~~~~~~~ Never allow someone to be your priority while allowing yourself to be their option
