Onthemountaintop, can you please help me understand how in the world it is even remotely productive to send a message of love to a man that has been cheating on his W with HOOKERS for some time?

Why on EARTH would anybody send a message that provided the slightest indication that behaving that way is even a fraction of a percent okay? There is nothing okay about it. It is disgusting and immoral and IMO he should be arrested along with the people providing him this service.