I could really use some additional advice on my last few updates and some suggestions.
I dont know if i did the right thing, but ended up talking with her this evening. I ended up telling her that I knew about all that stuff above. I started out slow and she obviously wasnt going to fess up, so I told her straight up. and I then found out some additional stuff. The night I said it was weird that her friend called her when they were supposedly together, well they went to the lake instead of the bar. She has been having an "emotional affair" atleast thats all she is willing to admit. She still stands by the "nothing has happened" statement. I dont believe it. She has been talkin to this guy for atleast a month and a half now.
Something else i found out was that I made her feel inadequate from all the talks.
On a personal reflection, I should have made it more of a point to get adult time with her outside the house and away from the kids.
I know i've been advised to have no contact. For the most part I have been doing that. She has been the one to contact me first. I think I needed to let her know I knew about all the stuff thats been going on.
