Thanks again, ladies. There is something different about actually seeing the paperwork to make the divorce OFFICIAL than just "living" like a divorcee!
I am thinking I will just suck it up and send an email to my BUNCO group which will work to disseminate the news. I won't go into detail. I think I'll just do it over the summer and then I can just come back and change my name on the door and on my newsletters home to "Ms." and if people say "Mrs." no big deal.
Since I am "headed to divorce" I moved my thread to the Surving the Big D forum. I will still pop in to check on you all though!
me,34 exH,34 S,16 months S:3/31/09-left for OW started DBing 10/09 d final: sometime 10/10 current: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1 met in 2004